I think I’m getting my mojo back. I’m inspired to write more and more. Time does heal along with knowing that Michelle is in a better place. I do believe that.
My husband just brought me a cup of coffee. Rudy knows I usually write in the mornings after he leaves for work. I don’t know how he knew I was getting ready to write now. It’s something I usually do for him in the mornings to help him get up for work and now he’s brought me a cup of deliciousness that I didn’t even know I needed until it was in my hands. A small thing, I know but that’s what love is to me.
We’re going to have the next five days together, celebrating family and the gifts that God has given us and that’s no small thing. I’m feeling better this week than last and I don’t feel like a trip to the hospital is imminent, and that’s no small thing. My heart feels full of love and gratitude for the many gifts I’ve been given including the gift of more life to live and believe me, that’s no small thing either.
We’re living in uncertain times these days, isn’t there a quote that says “May you live in interesting times?” We certainly are and through it all I can’t help but feel we’re going to be ok come what may. Challenges ahead, for certain but I have faith in my Lord, and in my small corner of the world.
I’m seeing the surgeon on the 13th. This one scares me, but I’m praying for peace of mind, comfort, and the wisdom of the surgeon, that should cover me.
My daughter Heather is graduating from nursing college soon, with her second bachelors degree. I’m so proud of her. Tommy is back in college and working along with Joey. Sarah is also in college and working. Little Rudy is taking a tech class and working really hard to support his family. I don’t take credit for the success of our children instead I’m humbly grateful for it.
I really do have much to be thankful for. God has blessed me with an amazing family. Statistics show that more women with a chronic illness will be left by their partner than men will. Rudy tells me that the thought of leaving me never occurs to him. It is a rare thing these days to have a man of honor in one’s life and it’s not something that I take for granted. Between Rudy and I we have 5 children that never cease to amaze me, and watching them grow to see the young men and women they’ve become has truly been a privilege.
I also have a few very close friends that I can count on for anything, in fact in some weird way I could say I’m grateful for the chronic illnesses. My life has challenged me and forced me to step outside of my comfort zone. I’ve learned who my friends are and perhaps just as importantly who my family isn’t. More on that at another time. As much as I miss her, I’m so thankful for having Michelle in my life for the short time that I did. It’s all these threads that have woven themselves into the tapestry of my life.
I have had the worst week. This is NOT how I want to live my life. My back is on fire and it’s getting me angry. I feel like I’m fighting to have some grace and I’m losing the battle this week, it’s hard not to get discouraged. My pain has been out of control and I just haven’t been able to get a grip on it.
I’ve been putting off getting surgery for my 3 herniated discs, I’m so tired of it, and frankly this one scares me. However, this morning my left leg was completely paralyzed for several hours then I spent several more hours with the worst pins and needles. It was hard not to cry out loud and I’m ashamed to say I didn’t succeed. The dilaudid is finally kicking in and I’m starting to feel some relief.
So this morning I went ahead and made the appointment with the neurosurgeon, I feel like I’m at the end of the road and I just can’t live this way any longer. I think I’m indulging in some self-pity today and I’m praying for God’s grace to help me get through this.
I miss Michelle so much, I have to believe that depression must be part of why I’m going through such a hard time with my pain. Never pass the opportunity to tell someone you love them. I’m glad I did that with Michelle.